I have a number of brick walls on my family tree, most of them on my mother’s father’s branch. There’s my great-great-great grandmother, Mary Ann “Polly” Stuart Pickens, born in Kentucky around 1803. or 1813. or 1817. or 1810. or 1804. or 1814. It all depends on which answer she gave the census taker. It’s hard enough finding female ancestors before 1850 without all this disinformation, Polly!
And then there’s Tom Howard, who was supposed to have been born in East St. Louis in 1840. And that’s all I’ve got really. Not much to go on. I’m hoping DNA can provide some clues.
And then there’s this handsome guy. John Adams. Often called Jack. The only facts we really knew about him were there in the typed note attached to his picture. His origins were a mystery.

In another note on the same picture in another of my great Uncle Earl’s (Earl Kenneth Adams 1918-1999) genealogy books that he self published in 1989, it says, “Jack (John) Adams (September 22, 1884–April 28, 1954) Picture taken July 1941. Parents were Frank Adams and Helen (Rogers) Adams. Born Brooklyn. New York. Had a full sister named Mary. His dad married twice. Five or six half-sisters.”
Oh, and also, Adams was not his real name. He had changed it after he ran away from home and he never did tell anyone what his original name was. Well, this one old boy might have known, but he died before my uncle could ever ask him. There was speculation that he might be Jewish (That nose!), and he used to like to debate with the Catholic priest (and there’s also a receipt somewhere of his donations to the Catholic church here in Georgetown). And there was some convoluted story about someone who had known his name but couldn’t remember it, but he thought it was the same name as those folks who used to live in so-and-so’s house and so Uncle Earl actually went to the courthouse and researched the property records and the name might have been Fontaine? So French roots? Who knows.
But still, based on Earl’s note about Brooklyn and his parents Frank and Helen, every once in a while I would do a search and see what I could find. I never really turned up a likely candidate. Since he was born in 1884, and there is no U.S. Census for Brooklyn in 1890, there weren’t many possible records to search. And searches of the 1900 census for New York turned up lots of Adams families all over the state, but none that had a John who was the right age, or if he was, I could trace him forward to a marriage and a family that weren’t mine.
But there was this one kid. In the 1900 census for New York, in the Burrough of Manhattan, an inmate in The New York House of Refuge, Randall’s Island. Well, that had to be investigated.
My trip down the rabbit hole of the social reform movements of the mid to late 19th century, eventually led me to this website: https://newyorkjuvenileasylum.com/.
There are extensive records for the New York House of Refuge, including individual inmate records that detail their time there, and admission and discharge records that might include information about their family. The records have been digitized and are available on microfilm from the New York State Archive, but there are 350 volumes of material, so I decided to wait until I could afford to have Mr. Clark Kidder, at the above website, do the research for me. I had to wait until last fall, when my genealogy budget could accommodate his research fees, but boy, was it worth it!
It turned out there were two boys of approximately the right age named John Adams, but further research showed that they did not match my John Adams. But then Mr. Kidder went the extra mile. I had provided what few details I had, including the fact that Adams might not be his birth name, so he searched on just the birth date. And he found this:
Hi Toya,
In addition to what I sent previously, the closest I can find is the following boy that had the same date and year of birth, was born in Brooklyn, and had a father named Frank:
John Aubrey
Born: 22 Sept. 1884 in NYC
Resided: 13 Center St., Brooklyn, NY
Father: Frank
Father’s occupation: Watchman
Father’s Nationality: French
Mother’s Nationality: Irish
Mother: Dead
Stepmother: Ellen
3 boys and 1 girl in the family
This looked promising!
I searched for the family in Brooklyn in the 1900 census and found them in Red Hook with 7 kids. I also found all kinds of records for them, including a death record for his dad, Frank, in 1902, just a little over a year after John is discharged from the House of Refuge.
But I still wasn’t sure if I could connect this kid to my Jack Adams. I had started building out their family tree when it occurred to me that I ought to check my DNA results to see if we actually had any French ancestry on my mom’s side of the family. I knew there was a little bit, but I thought it was on my dad’s side. But lo and behold, all the French ancestry was on Mom’s side! And then, I think my heart actually stopped. One of the DNA cousin matches who is related to me and my aunt and my Adams cousins had a very limited family tree attached to her account, which included as her grandfather one of those 7 kids from the 1900 census record! I was gobsmacked. After all this time, there he was. With his real name. And his birth family. It felt like I was on an episode of Finding Your Roots.
Of course, now that I have this answer, I have a bazillion more questions. I still don’t know his birth mother’s name or when she died or where in Ireland she came from. I can’t find any other records about his father before 1900, other than a naturalization petition index record from 1895 that shows he arrived from France on 15 May 1875. But which part of France. And at almost 30 years old, was he single when he came? or is there another family that came before Jack and his mother. And what about the sisters? Lots to do!
Join us next time for another episode of Chasing Swedes (and other ancestors of varying ethnicities).